Between Kin

The family conversation you've been meaning to have — made possible.

Between Kin helps families navigate aging together — a guided way through the conversations that matter most. Your family at the center, always.

$97/year · No setup fees · Cancel anytime

An adult daughter and her mother laughing together in a garden, golden afternoon light
Three generations of a family sitting together on a bright porch, mid-conversation and at ease

You've been meaning to bring it up.

Where will Mom live in five years? Who decides, if she can't? What does Dad actually want? Most families wait for a crisis to answer these, with no good options left. Between Kin is for having that conversation now, while it's still just a conversation.

How it unfolds

  1. 1. Everyone answers, privately

    A thoughtful questionnaire — each of you, at your own pace.

  2. 2. A private report, for each of you

    Yours alone. No one else sees it — no finger-pointing, no surprises sprung.

  3. 3. Two quiet days

    Time to sit with what you've read before anyone talks.

  4. 4. One honest conversation, together

    The shared report shows where you agree — and where you only thought you did.

  5. 5. Your family's roadmap

    The conversations worth having next, one at a time, at your family's pace.

Built to be gentle with your family

  • Private answers stay private — always.

  • No wrong answers, no deadlines, no pressure.

  • Made for real families — the close ones, the complicated ones, and everyone in between.

This is for you if…

  • You've been putting this conversation off for years — and you know it
  • You want your parent's voice in this, not just your own plan for them
  • You'd rather do this before a health scare forces you to
  • Your family is close — or complicated — or both
  • You don't know where to start, and you need a structure to follow

Probably not for you if:

  • You're looking for legal or financial advice
  • The crisis has already happened and decisions need to be made today

Pricing

One plan. Everything included.

$97 /year

One plan per aging parent. Add a second plan for $67.

  • Questionnaire for your whole family
  • Private solo report for each participant
  • Shared family report with gap findings
  • Living roadmap — milestones at your family's pace
  • Invite links you send yourself, to the people you choose
  • Cancel anytime
Start your family's plan →

First 100 families get $30 off — use code FIRST100 at checkout

Why Between Kin exists

Most families mean to have this conversation. It waits — behind birthdays, busy seasons, and the quiet sense that there's still time. Until later arrives, and the most important conversation becomes the one nobody got to have.

Between Kin was built for the families still waiting — to make the conversation possible while everyone still has choices, and the table isn't already set by crisis.

Questions

Frequently asked

Stay close

Not ready yet? That's okay.

I write occasional letters about what it means to navigate aging with the people you love. No marketing. Just the honest version.

No spam. Unsubscribe any time.

Each of you can do something most families never do.

It starts with one person deciding it's time.